Football must remain a game – a space of joy and healthy development for children. Through the B.R.A.V.O. platform, the Romanian Football Federation (FRF) continues its efforts to combat one of the most painful „fouls” in youth football: bullying and pressure exerted by parents and spectators in the stands.
Following the adoption of significant amendments to the Disciplinary Code in 2024 to combat coach abuse in Romanian football – introducing fines between 10,000 and 20,000 RON and license suspensions ranging from 1 to 3 years—the FRF has now turned its attention toward the parents of young players.
A New Card in Youth Football: The Black Card
Starting this season, the Romanian Football Federation is introducing a new disciplinary procedure for youth competitions (U7–U16 age categories), bringing a groundbreaking element to football: the Black Card. The decision was adopted on September 11, 2026, by the FRF Emergency Committee and is already included in the competition regulations for children and youth.
With this measure, the FRF becomes the only football federation in the world to introduce a card exclusively dedicated to sanctioning the inappropriate behavior of spectators in the stands.
For the FRF, the message is clear: children must not be the victims of the ambitions, pressure, or frustrations of adults in the stands.
The Black Card is the visual signal through which the referee unequivocally communicates that a match is permanently stopped due to the inappropriate behavior of spectators or parents. Abusive behavior not only disrupts a match but can also directly impact children and the entire team.
The Three-Step Procedure for Abusive Behavior
The new procedure is triggered when the referee observes inappropriate behavior from spectators or parents, or is informed of it by the fourth official (if applicable) or another match official.
In these cases, the referee will apply the following measures sequentially:
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Step 1 – The Warning: The referee temporarily stops the match and asks the coaches to speak directly to their own supporters or parents so that the misconduct stops immediately. Where a public address system is available, announcements will also be made to spectators.
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Step 2 – Temporary 10-Minute Match Suspension: If the behavior continues, the referee suspends the match for 10 minutes and sends the teams to the dressing rooms. During this time, coaches will again attempt to de-escalate the spectators’ behavior.
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Step 3 – Brandishing the Black Card and Permanent Match Cancellation: If abusive behavior persists after play resumes, the referee blows the final whistle. The match is permanently abandoned and cannot be resumed.
In this final scenario, the referee displays the Black Card, visually marking the decision to permanently stop the match. It serves as the ultimate signal that the line has been crossed.
Applicable Scenarios for the New Disciplinary Procedure
The new procedure targets inappropriate behavior by parents and spectators directed at children, coaching staff members, referees, match officials, or other parents and spectators. This includes, but is not limited to:
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Verbal abuse (insults or profanity), as well as physical assault or shoving of one’s own children;
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Verbal abuse, physical assault, or shoving of staff members of one’s own team;
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Verbal abuse, physical assault, or shoving of players or staff members of the opposing team;
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Continuous challenging, verbal abuse, physical assault, or shoving of referees and match officials;
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Verbal or physical altercations with other parents or spectators.
The full list of misconduct covered under the new procedure can be consulted in the updated FRF Disciplinary Code.
All 130 academies in the Academy Classification have received a kit from the FRF containing a banner, posters with rules of conduct for parents, and flyers explaining the 3-step procedure.
The B.R.A.V.O. Platform Continues Its Mission
This new measure is part of a broader FRF initiative to make youth football a safer, healthier environment for children. In 2025, the Federation launched the B.R.A.V.O. platform (Bucurie, Respect, Afecțiune, Voință și Optimism – Joy, Respect, Affection, Willpower, and Optimism), an umbrella project dedicated to combating pressure, bullying, and the lack of support children can face in sports.
The platform’s first campaign, „The Dressing Room of the Generation Nobody Wants,” highlighted the negative words and labels children hear from the sidelines and how these impact their sporting experience. The campaign turned the dressing room into a symbolic space where children’s jerseys displayed the negative names heard from parents and spectators instead of player names. Additionally, every youth age group across all football academies was required to designate a „Parent Captain” who completes a safeguarding course and monitors parent conduct.
Furthermore, starting last season, the FRF implemented Silent Day in U13 and U14 competitions, where match scores are not recorded. Twice a year, parents and coaches are not allowed to shout from the sidelines. The goal of „Silent Day” is to offer children a pressure-free environment to enjoy the game, make decisions, and express themselves without fear of constant evaluation from the stands.
Through these regulatory updates, the FRF moves from awareness to concrete action: when adult behavior crosses the line, the children’s game stops.
The FRF initiative is supported by major media partners: PRO TV, Voyo Sport 1, Prima TV & Prima Sport, Digi Sport, TVR, TVR Sport, Antena 1, Antena Play, Golazo, GSP, Prosport, Fanatik, iAMSport, KISS FM, as well as the Inmedio and World Class networks. The Romanian Football Federation thanks them for their involvement!
